I’ve been in the hobby for a while now, my friend got me in to it. I absolutely love her dolls and mine so does she, but she gets a new doll every birthday AND xmas, then kinda sits there like “Look at this thing I got! It’s fancy, expensive and you’ll never get it!” 

She knows I can’t get all but maybe one doll a year IF I’m lucky, then tells me she’ll buy me a pukifee or something but it never happens. I’m sick of false hope. 

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I was devastated today to find out that one of my favorite bjd collectors on flickr blocked me despite the fact that I never spoke to them. The reason why? My friend owns recasts, so everyone in our area is considered a “recast-supporting group.”

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I’ve tried my best to be of use to and a productive member of the BJD community, but when it really comes down to it and people are constantly whining about the things I do or write, even when I know they have used the tutorials and links I provide, I find myself wondering why I bother. I really dislike nearly all of you, I’d say hate, but that implies I can find it in me to care that much, and I just can’t anymore. I wonder what the hell happened to the community I used to know.

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I’m fairly new to the hobby, but already I’m sick and tired of people spending all their money on dolls, and then complaining that they don’t have any money left for rent, food or other expenses.

Yes, it’s your decision, but don’t whine and complain when it’s you and no one else that have put yourself into the situation you’re currently in. I won’t feel sorry for you not being able to pay your rent, because you spent that money on a $500 doll. That’s immature, no matter what excuses you have.

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A lot of people on forums follow the “if you can’t say anything nice, don’t say anything at all” rule. If your faceup/mod/outfit is getting absolutely no comments despite your obsessive bumping, this might be why. Look at some tutorials and post again after some practice.

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I wish there were more people around my age in the local BJD community. Sometimes I feel really lonely.

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I want a Ringdoll Sol, but I can’t afford him. My boyfriend looks like him so he says he’ll cosplay his fullset one day so I can have a real life Ringdoll Sol.

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I haven’t been around that long, but it seems to me like people are manufacturing their own drama… I’ve seen more hate about the hate on DoA on the confessions blogs than I’ve seen actual hate on DoA… if anything, people there seem to gush about the pretty things and ignore everything else…

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One day you claim to be in love with a doll. and the next day you have it up for sale. Make up your freakin’ mind!!!

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Agh! I want to have my resin and vinyl BJDS sitting near me outside of their boxes but I can already tell they’ve yellowed quickly (even the vinyl!). I don’t understand how everyone else can have theirs out all the time! How do you do it?!

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